BRENT STOLLER

A hopeful, (sometimes) humorous take on the traumas of infertility and pregnancy loss.

Some of My Favorite Work

A collection of some of the work that I am most proud of.

Four Years in the Making: Emily and Brent Become Parents

After four years, five pregnancies, five lost unborn children and a 43-hour induction process, Emily and I finally got our rainbow baby.

Pregnancy: Yes, I’m Afraid, But I’m Also This…

With Emily at 37 weeks today, we could be first-time parents at any time.

And for as scary as that is, fear isn’t the only emotion I’m feeling — and I wanted our unborn child to know that.

Pregnancy: Coming Clean to Our Unborn Child

There’s plenty that scares me about becoming a parent.

And here, in a conversation with my unborn child, I own up to those fears — not only for the sake of my sanity, but for the sake of theirs.

Pregnancy: What If We Have a Girl?

Last week, I talked through some of my hopes, feelings and fears about the possibility that Emily and I will have a boy.

Here, I do the same about the possibility of having a girl — a prospect that might be even more exciting. That is, if it also weren’t so frightening.