BRENT STOLLER

A hopeful, (sometimes) humorous take on the traumas of infertility and pregnancy loss.

Pregnancy: We Took a Birthing Class

To prepare for our child’s approaching arrival, Emily and I recently took a birthing class.

And as we learned about the miracle of birth, Emily could barely contain her excitement. Meanwhile, I could barely keep down my lunch.

Dad Practice: Elevator Etiquette

Riding an elevator shouldn’t be complicated. Yet too often it’s fraught with irritation and chaos, with people doing what (I think) they shouldn’t be doing.

And I’m determined to make sure our child is NOT one of those people.

Dad Practice: The One Thing That Makes Everything Better

Ever since I lost my job, I’ve been in a funk.

But a recent conversation with a friend reminded me that feeling better is as simple as changing this one thing.

One Trait I Do NOT Want to Pass On to Our Child

I have no shortage of quirks and characteristics I hope our child doesn’t inherit from me.

In this video, I discuss one of these traits in particular — a trait that would by no means be life-shattering, but could be life-changing.

Will I Be Able to Connect With My Child?

When I think about becoming a parent, this is one of my biggest fears, because I’ve never been able to connect with children.

And this lack of ability was never more apparent than the time I made an innocent 8-year-old cry.