BRENT STOLLER

A hopeful, (sometimes) humorous take on the traumas of infertility and pregnancy loss.

Advice for the Modern Man: Those Three Little Words

Couple in love

The first date. The first kiss. The first sleepover disrupted by snoring. In relationships, each new “first” is full of excitement and anxiety, with the occasional dab of embarrassment.

But few “firsts” carry the make-or-break weight of the first “I love you.”

Advice for the Modern Man: Friends With Benefits(?) (VIDEO!)

Friends

The “Friends with benefits” relationship can be one of the most enjoyable relationships out there. It’s the definition of no-strings-attached fun.

But is this reader holding onto his care-free arrangement to cover up for his fear of commitment?

Advice for the Modern Man: The Value of a Home-Cooked Meal

Home-cooking

While trying to save money — in the present and for the future — one couple struggles to eat at home more often.

But is their steady stream of delivery and take-out a sign of a deeper problem?

Advice for the Modern Man: Let’s Talk About Threesomes

Love triangle

Ahhh, threesomes…just the topic I want to write about knowing my mother’s going to be reading this.

The romantic choices your partner has made in the past can be maddening, unsettling or a downright turn-off, but ultimately, they’re not your business.

Advice for the Modern Man: The Aftermath of Abandonment

Sad woman

Our first question submitted by a female reader!

My boyfriend broke up with me, so why won’t he let me go? Chances are he’s not trying to hold onto you, but to something he lost a long time ago.