BRENT STOLLER

A hopeful, (sometimes) humorous take on the traumas of infertility and pregnancy loss.

This Simple Task Will Put a Smile on Your Face

Smile

As I make my way through my daily routine, in my office building, on elevators, in hallways and parking lots and supermarket aisles, I’m always struck/disappointed by how many people are unwilling to exchange acknowledgments — much less pleasantries — with one another.

In Order to Heal, You Have to Feel

Sunrise

When you’re dealing with something difficult, there’s a belief that you shouldn’t get too down. That the best thing you can do is plaster over the pessimism with positivity.

But sometimes, as I’ve learned, you’re in need of a good wallowing.

The One Rule for Breaking the Rules

You have to be committed.

That’s what anyone will tell you — and what we all know — is required for success.

It’s also what’s required when you’re breaking the rules.

Why You Don’t Want to Feel Successful

It’s OK to not feel successful.

In fact, it might be better if you don’t. Because that’s what leads to more success.

The Bright Side of Nightmares

Do you have a recurring dream?

I have two, and both are unpleasant. The only good part is they allow my subconscious brain tackle issues my conscious mind is too scared to touch.