BRENT STOLLER

A hopeful, (sometimes) humorous take on the traumas of infertility and pregnancy loss.

30 Days of Joy: I am My Parents’ Son

The other day I wrote about how I’ve been turning into my mother, because on most nights, I can’t make it through whatever my wife and I are watching without passing out on the couch. 

This morning, I realized I’m turning into my father, too.

30 Days of Joy: When the Present Exceeds the Past

It’s always disappointing — if not a little soul-crushing — when the highlights of your youth don’t hold up to the scrutiny of adulthood.

Thankfully, the opposite happened with my most recent screening of the original “Point Break.”

30 Days of Joy: Turning the Ordinary Into the Extraordinary

Are you the type of person who gets to know the service industry people with whom you regularly interact? Like the barista at your corner Starbucks or the server at your daily lunch spot?

I’m not. But I’d like to be.

30 Days of Joy: I Took a Cold Shower…Almost

Recently, I wrote about how I wanted to take cold showers but couldn’t. 

This morning, I decided I could.

Just do it, right?

30 Days of Joy: A Double Shot of Validation

As I was walking into my office building, I did a quick turn of the head to see if anyone was coming behind me. 

There was, and she was in No Man’s Land — far enough that I could conceivably not hold the door for her, close enough that it’d be awkward/rude if I didn’t.

And I had no idea what to do.